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If you want to attract a partner, identify what you love to do, and do it—a lot.
Involved, busy people really are more attractive, so if you want to get engaged to your soul mate, start by being engaged in activities that fascinate you—especially those that have nothing to do with dating and that make you forget to go love hunting.
So, I am a single man in love with a married woman. My affair partner has begun individual counseling to try to find some clarity regarding our situation. UPDATE #3: Well, she’s been divorced for about 9 months now. He has someone who is happy to be with him and shares his values. But I was determined to document the experience to share with anyone else who may be feeling the things I was a couple of years ago. And maybe, just maybe, the next time something like this comes up…
On the surface, it seems like EVERYTHING in my relationship is going my way. She has already told me that when she thinks about the future, she is thinking about me/us and not him. And we are making all the necessary life changes to be ready for our life together. After a couple of months of her living alone, I began staying over more and more. He is finally in a new relationship, too, so that may help everyone involved move forward. My lady and I get to be with the love of our lives. My hope is that it helps open eyes on any side of the equation. you’ll remember something I’ve shared here and have a slightly different perspective.
She has told me that she knows her real happiness can only be achieved with me. She knows her family (and his) will be devastated and very disappointed in her. A few weeks after this story was posted, we took a trip out of town for a week together. They haven’t completely come around but they are making motions in that direction. We have discussed our intention to marry, but we haven’t firmed up any plans. She has struggled with guilt over how things transpired.
She accepts that her marriage is nothing more than a good friendship and always has been. She acknowledges that she’s lived a majority of her life trying to make other people happy and “do the right thing” and never put her own happiness first. The day we came back home, she told her husband about us and asked him to move to his parents’ house. As expected, she got little support or understanding. They finally admitted that they knew the marriage was in trouble for years despite the calm appearance.
I believe this failure has much to do with the model of love-seeking most popular in our culture: the idea of romantic pursuit as a type of predation, a hunting expedition the goal of which is capture.
He’s the one whose opinion she solicits regarding how that shirt or those jeans look on her. And there will be plenty of times when both of those are in short supply.
He’s still the one who hears that familiar intimacy in her voice when she’s talking about the details of daily life. Add to the fact that new years eve found them in NYC for the ball drop; another one of her “bucket list” experiences that she, yet again, ticked off with him. I missed something else that she will remember for the rest of her life. You just have to take it one step at a time and give all parties involved time to process the new paradigm and readjust their presuppositions.
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